At the end of the day, we are the strongest

,,At the end of the day, I’m a human being and I just think that’s what it is.”

Hey guys! I am a little late with the new article (I know!), but I have exams and stuff to do at Uni but still let’s be honest, this is mostly more interesting than studying or doing some translation studies/ works.

Anyway, today I wanted to talk about the countless days when we all feel he stereotypical pressure, as I call it- the great endless circle.
Wake up – breakfast – work/school – lunch – home – study – paper work – arguments – shower – more paper work – desperate look – fuck it I am going to sleep…Can you see yourself in this? Because I somehow do at least for past three months.

In general, people are starting to feel anxious after all of this (and I am sure that all of you have some kind of stereotype in your life).
I think, it’s all up to us, how we cooperate with these stereotypical happenings. It’s all about your approach towards the “problem”. You can wake up at the morning and just tell to yourself that today is gonna be a good day and you won’t let anybody to ruin it; or you will wake up and and the first thought ‘s gonna be negative, you can’t expect from the day to be positive and well. I guess, that the first thought of morning is the one which decides whether the day’s gonna be good or bad for you. It’s basically all about your attitude.

People have to have the right character for liking the stereotype. Yea, believe me,you would find also people like that. They simply feel better when something’s happening in the same order all over again. Nothing’s changing and they feel comfortable like that.
BUT, there are also people, who can’t live in stereotypical area. and still have to do something different- being somewhere, doing something.
I suppose that there is also something in the middle. I mean, being in stereotype, but still trying to escape it by doing what you can and when you have just a little time, do something different. Something that is considered as new, as an adventure, just to do something what YOU really want.

But, yes, the title point? When you finally come home, after a few month when you finally get out of the circle of constant working with a little of entertainment in your life, you just simply sit on the top of your bed, you catch yourself thinking: ,,What the fuck am I doing with my life?”
Me as a overthinking queen, I have like a very long monologue in my head about all of this, as usual. I am still trying to get out of the tiring stereotype, at least once a week, for example- do something “adventurous”, go for a trip, take some new photos, talk to people, listen to them, meet new people, get to know them, have a call with that one person from another country, feel better at least once a week!

So when you sit there, try to find at least one good thing which you can discover at the very bottom of this period. It might look like a bad period, but you have to uncover that one positive aspect no matter what. Always try to find the negative and transform it to at least a little positive stuff.

In conclusion, you can congratulate yourself.
Do you know why?
You don’t really know what’s gonna happen tomorrow, or the day after- but till now, you have survived the 100% of your bad days, you are still here. So try to mine from it and remember: you are the real creator of what’s gonna happen.

You’re all so strong and I know, that you can make it.
Good luck! πŸ™‚

N.

P.s: My little escape πŸ™‚ enjoy

coffee to go

sunset

read as much as you can

walk it

walk

 

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6 thoughts on “At the end of the day, we are the strongest

  1. I love the photo with the dog and the leaves.
    I do think it’s good to break away from your normal cycles once a week and try and do something different. It’s a bit of a challenge. Talking to new people can be adventurous too. I never really looked at it that way.

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    1. Thank you πŸ™‚
      With breaking the “usuals” I meant that you don’t really have to do the same all over again, sometimes you can try something new and it feels different- different city, different people.
      Talking to new people might be adventurous when you are trying to gain some social skills. Also you don’t really know them and they don’t know you- maybe that’s it, that’s the real adventure.
      Just finished my meditation but feel so much better after your comment πŸ™‚

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