Just a thought #4

Words couldn’t transfer the experience.
It could only be a good simulation, but at the end of the day, everybody had to fight out their own wars on their own.

“Action speaks louder than words”- or where the shoe really pinches?

*Know where the shoe pinches to know where the cause of trouble or difficulty is*

Are you able to count, how many times have you ever thought about this sentence (title ↑) in your entire life?
Like every girl/woman in her life- when some relationship started to look “more than a hook up”, so she was requiring this, proving that he loves you but with something that can be accepted as “action”- at least in her mind.
Pink glasses? Maybe a little.

My point?
Why do we say that one sentence  while sitting in a bar, with our girl friends, sipping coffee, in huge expectation, when most of the times words have the most effect on us?

For example, if somebody punches us in the face, after a little while (and a bruise or two) it fades away and we can move on with our lives somehow. i am not saying it never happened, bruises always disappear but  what about bruises on your heart and soul?
Today, when someone say some hurtful words to you, it can last a lifetime. If not lifetime → a very very long time.
I’d say, painful much?
The amount of pain, pricked right into the feels, takes such a long time to leave us. Those simple sentences which can make someone even insane or make somebody to eat himself/herself away.

Try to imagine a little race, words race, happening in your head, from side to side, in a circle- making a little tornado called Confusion, in your brain and corrupts your self image.
∴ People have the tendency to judge others according to their look, appearance- and the worst this, that the weaker ones start cracking and start to hide their true self away from the world.
∴ Someone says some bad stuff about your personality and after that there are options: A) Just admit it, maybe try to crack a joke because you are aware that you can be weird sometimes B) You shut people off because you are trying to fight with it but that’s who you are for Christ sake.
∴ When someone says harsh things about the way you live your life and you get the feeling that you don’t want to be around anymore and feeling a strong need to leave.

I think it’s time.
For what?
It’s time to realize, that a word, only a simple word, can destroy a person. You should think before you speak, like your mommy taught you a very long time ago. You have no knowledge about things that may be happening in one persons life.
At this point, I am not saying that requiring “action” is a bad thing or something, I would say it’s very individual, how the person handles life in general. Remember that every single card had a backside and maybe if we all turn our minds around, there will be less harm and misunderstandings between people.

Well, maybe sometimes words speak louder than actions.

Think about it.

N.

P.s: I so freaking love this new “Prisma” app, obsessing about it about a week or so.

You are what you take from these

♦

Almost every time I am starting to write a post I don’t know how to start. I mean, I have so many thoughts in my head, which is filled up from the bottom to the top, just don’t know where exactly to start. There are times when I wish to start from the real end and just reverse everything. Or not start to think of it at all? What it’s nice sometimes, but still, those are your thoughts and you are the one who is making you being you.

You are the music you listen to.
You are the movies you watch.
You are dreams you have.
You are the books you read.

In the meantime- You are the sound of the ocean, which you haven’t heard for so so long, you are the gust of the fresh air that you inhale and exhale like you are breathing for the first time.
You are the brightest angle during the day and the darkest corner while you are walking in your town in those little hidden streets.

You are simply a collection of all those experience that you’ve lived through in your short life. I can tell that you are considered as every second in every day. Cover yourself up with all the knowledge and existence in your life.
Sometimes I tend to think that words are running in my veins aaaaall the way to my head, non stop, till they reach the final destination and there is no other way than explode and do their job. There is nothing left to do, just say it all to the world.

You are the people you meet.
I don’t know, it is amazing and fascinating, both in one. I don’t know if you are fan of a long structured talks or just those which are called “small talks”. Well, if you wanna know- you can get to know so much from just a small talk things, sometimes even from just one sentence, because it can instantly change the view or the image you have about the people. Sometimes I think it’s about the small words that can hurt your soul like a knife in your heart or make you fall in love with them maybe for forever. It might change a lot, they don’t even have to know about it, but it still happens, you know.

One of the weirdest things ever at some point of your life is, when you stop talking to someone and you still have those left over information about them. Like for example, their siblings name, the song that you sang all over again together and you both considered them as you favorite, maybe a chocolate flavor, even their weird dreams after drinking too much wine last night. You were going through all happenings together for so long and now it’s just gone. I don’t know how about you, but for me, this is just weird.

But yea, that all happens, people burn bridges and simply leave and move on and some of them stay forever. Some people give you something and some of them nothing, for you to grow as a person.
And then there is a question hanging- »Are you able to differentiate?«

I think there is no wrong answer.
Inspiration is everywhere.
Continue on this path.
Relax.
Take it all in.

N.

Say something

“…it only takes one voice, at the right pitch, to start an avalanche.”

Even if today was kind of a better day in some ways, I decided to talk about something what is not that positive in general- being afraid to speak up.There are lot of people in this world who – when it comes to that – never say a word when something’s happening, either in their life or if they have to speak up for some other person. Okay, being afraid is perfectly normal, being scared that at the end you will come out as the worst one, okay- everything’s okay, but (!) if not, then you will help yourself, or the satisfaction from helping the others is worth of it all. Yes, sometimes, it can be hard to distinguish yes or no, but if you feel that it’s right, then it’s right. Words are here for communication, so say something before it’s too late.

N. 

P.s: Why those photos? Yes, say something before the light goes off.

Writing means…

“All you have to do is write one true sentence. Write the truest sentence that you know.”

What is your first idea, when somebody say a word “writing” ?
Today I wanted to talk about the deeper meaning of writing, as a amateur writer, I am sure that all of you who is writing some kind of blog or stories, or book whatever- has the same feeling as I have 🙂 and I wanted to share them with you.

It started a few days ago at my British Literature lesson at UNI where we discussed Shakespearean sonnets and stuff, my teacher suddenly started to talk about writing in general. He said one interesting sentence:

,,Writing is to leave…”

 I’ve heard it and it got me like..whoa.. It got me thinking about all the things, feelings, emotions, thoughts etc, basically what is the writing giving back to me.

Writing means to express yourself- to feel free to say anything you want (when nobody knows who you are, that one is totally my case 😛 ) To feel the power of the word, being able to use it however you want.

Writing means to leave the reality and be somewhere else, just for a minute or two. Honestly, here you can be who you are, and also stay who you are.
You can lie or tell the biggest truth you are afraid to say for so long. You can say what you really meant that night, when you were too afraid to speak up.

Writing means to do it for you but also for people- to amuse them, to grab their hand and bring them inside of your story, to make them feel what you felt when you were writing those simple sentences, word by word.

Writing means, to dedicate it to somebody who actually give a fuck about what you think. That person really wanted to read “what do you mean” even if he/she doesn’t even know you.

Writing means to help somebody that you don’t even know, to help them with you words.

Writing means to give out the perfect “emotion” you felt when you thought about that one particular event…or person.

Writing is a decision to tell people who you are and let them know that you are not going away. That you will stay here no matter what till the last word, till the last dot at the end of the sentence.

Writing means not to feel lost and alone through the sleepless night. It gives you the energy to know that, when you wake up, you’ll know that some people will take your advice, your thoughts and they will shift them on and on.

Last but not the least thing is that YOU, yes you, who’s reading these sentences, are giving me the strenght to continue this blog 🙂 your attention, your reading  ..all the things are the best things and I appreciate this so so much.
Nothing is better for a writer than wake up at the morning and know that you read it and liked it and you want more.

So I just wanted to thank you all, for everything and “read” you next time 😉

N

P.s: I wrote this one piece during one lesson at UNI, I can’t be prouder! 😀 and also a little photo 🙂

Letter “C”

,,One day I will find the words and they will be simple”

Today was an ordinary long “bad weather” day 🙂 as usual, I was thinking about so many things which are going to change in my life, and I was also checking up my older photos, so found this one:

I remember as I spotted this “C” painted on a tree I had to took a photo of it, because I knew that I’m gonna need it later 🙂 and that day just came!
When I see this one I am thinking about all the words which are begininng with letter C- 13 of them:

Courage to tell to the world with no fear how you feel about him/her, things which you are afraid to say out loud

Coffee to survive the day/  great morning kick-ass

(being) Confused when something went worse than you expected

Calm yourself down when somebody pisses you off as hell

Carry on when everything fails but you can’t let them know you are down

Classic music when you need to take a minute for yourself

Clean your heart/head up

Clock is ticking like crazy, that’s why you have to live for the moment

(be) Crazy, because not being crazy is like a crime)

Cleverness is something what you’re loosing exactly when you need it to stand by your side

Collect your best memories, so in another 20 years you can remind yourself that your youth wasn’t that bad at all

Communicate only with the right people, with somebody who will stay with you no matter what

Case – packing,for travelling around the world

I picked only the words which are pretty important for me and I hope that you’ll find some of them which are compatible with your theory of life too 😛

When I look at this short list of words which are known very well in my mind I just play my best days all over again in my head – pushing play at the beggining, pausing when something funny or interesting happens, rewinding when sad parts are coming and also stopping the “story telling” when I want to memorize that particular moment forever.
Photos makes me realize that not everything is just black and white because when you colour them, something amazing can happen 🙂

N